An article from Reuters published in the April 21, 2007 edition of The Washington Post poses this question: Should families pay the dutiful daughter or son who steps up to be an aging parent's primary caregiver?
Experts in the field of eldercare suggest there are good reasons why families should work out formalized agreements so that the family member shouldering the greatest care-giving burden is paid. To avoid hard feelings or disagreements later, it’s important for families to sit down, figure out what’s best for their aging parent, and perhaps put their agreement in writing.
Sometimes this care-planning is done as part of overall estate-planning. Some families transfer money out of an aging parent's name to help the parent more easily qualify for Medicaid if nursing-home care becomes necessary. Some states, Arkansas, California, Oregon and Washington, for example, have initiated programs that pay families to provide care so that seniors can remain at home. Home care is still less expensive than nursing home care. Some long-term care insurance polices will pay for home care also.
The article provides some helpful advice and can be the first step that helps families plan for the future. You can read “Compensating family caregivers” here.
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